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The Living Wisdom
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Money matters in a marriage. But money is also the No.1 cause of divorce. So, get your money wisdom.
Avoid committing the Seven Deadly Sins, which breakup a marriage.
Getting and staying married gives you happiness. Get the happiness wisdom based on the science of happiness.
To satisfy an inflated ego, one needs to control others. Healthy marriage partners accommodate, instead of controlling, each other.
Getting married just to make you "happy" is only a self-delusion.

Getting married is about "two living as one" -- which requires greater effort on both marriage partners to turn their co-existence into a success.

Getting married is all about "accountability" to each other and "living in reality" in the material world.
The TAO is the ancient wisdom from China. This book contains the 81 chapters with the author's own interpretation.
To understand biblical wisdom which is for the soul, you need profound human wisdom -- which is the TAO wisdom.
To live and survive in a world of depression, you need the wisdom of Lao Tzu, the ancient sage from China, more than 2,600 years ago.
Learn how to let go of all your attachments to the present and the past that define "who" you think you are. Be your true self.
Living wisdom is the art of living well, which is based on the integration of the contemporary wisdom, the ancient wisdom, and the biblical wisdom. It provides a blueprint for you not only to live but also to survive in this material world.

The author also provides a recipe for what you should or should not do, so that you may live as if everything is a miracle.

So, live a life of passion and purpose with wisdom and self-enlightenment.
Live in the now, and live as if there were no tomorrow, and tomorrow is just another day, if you just don't die!
Live your life to the fullest in your golden years. Make the best and the most of what you have left and still make some new waves in the final chapters of your life.
A 233-page book to stay younger and healthier for longer! Mature youthfully instead of getting old gracefully!
The TAO is both  your compass and roadmap for your journey of aging. It helps you get to your final destination.
This book explains in detail all the aging problems and their respective solutions.

Positive aging requires the biblical wisdom from the Book of Revelation, which enlightens the mind with salvation and eternal life.

In addition, the TAO wisdom may also help the elderly live in reality in advanced years, especially when they are confronted by many daily changes and challenges.

Many pray simply because they want their "expectations to be fulfilled." So, you must have the wisdom to  know where human expectations have come from.
A cancer diagnosis may be an opportunity for personal growth and development, as well as for looking at one's health and life with totally different perspectives.
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This 200-page book is about how the TAO can heal one of the many autoimmune diseases afflicting humans worldwide.
A blueprint to enhance eyesight and improve vision health, with exercises based on Dr. William Bates' techniques!
Increase your baby's brain cells through spatial intelligence, non-verbal communication, emotional development, language  skills, and kinesthetic enhancement etc.
29 steps, 90 games and activities, 50 color illustrations to teach children to become proficient readers!
Get everything you need to know about a healthy pregnancy to have a healthy baby. All the "dos" and "don'ts" are critical even before and after the months of pregnancy.
Biblical wisdom may help your children see the real meaning of life, and develop their own passion and purpose for life.
Get the 12 strategies to creatively nurture your child's unique developing mind.
A natural and holistic approach to autoimmune diseases based on the author's  own experience and struggle against his myasthenia gravis!

For the past three decades, the author has been drug-free. In this book, he wants to share with you how he has overcome the symptoms of the autoimmune disease, such as muscle weakness, without his dependence on steroid medications.

ESL learners may have problems with English words and phrases that may look similar but are different in meanings.

This 122-page book has hundreds of prepositional words and phrases with explanations and examples.
Learn these everyday expressions for everyday situations. A must for ESL learners.
More than 900 American idioms with simple explanation and examples for ESL learners.
A manual on writing skills for anyone who wants to write well!

The book includes: basic grammar; common sentence errors; different types of sentences; paragraph development; style and usage.

Is writing such a difficult and daunting task? Not really. Is writing skill learnable? Absolutely!
Get the wisdom to love yourself and others, such as self-acceptance and loving-kindness, as well as to help yourself and your marriage partner to survive and thrive in your marriage.

Click here to find out how to get genuine love and accountability in marriage to live in reality, instead of in fantasy.
Get the TAO wisdom to live every aspect of your daily life in balance and perfect harmony, including:   pursuing your careers, making your money, maintaining your good relationships, getting married, raising your children, health and healing, aging and dying. The TAO shows you how to live as if everything is a miracle.

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The Bible says wisdom is everything. "Joyful is the person who finds wisdom, the one who gains understanding." (Proverbs 3:13)

Without wisdom, there is no understanding.

But why is understanding important?

Without understanding, anything and everything in life may seem paradoxical and inexplicable. It is this mindset that may make many people "not living in reality" -- in their minds they only see "unfairness" and "inequality." This distorted mindset may even lead many to committing crimes and violence: "Why shouldn't I rob them who've the money that I don't have?" or "They too have broken the law, so why shouldn't I do the same?"

Biblical wisdom is about "accountability" to God, which will give you spiritual "understanding." But if you are not a believer, that "understanding" may be irrelevant to you.

Having said that, human wisdom is indispensable in contemporary living. Human wisdom is not the same as acquisition of knowledge; human wisdom is the application of what you feel and understand to your everyday life and living. So, being knowledgeable does not necessarily mean being wise.

The TAO is the profound wisdom of Lao Tzu, an ancient sage from China more than 2,600 years ago. The TAO has survived and thrived for thousands of years for a good reason: it is applicable to anything and everything in contemporary daily life. The TAO shows you all the hows and the whys of anything and everything happening in your life, including the following: growing up, receiving education, earning a living, making money, getting married, starting a family, raising children, staying healthy, growing old, and dying.

The TAO helps you confront all your daily challenges, and live in balance and harmony.

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NEW BOOK: Use TAO wisdom and spiritual wisdom to live in reality with accountability--a life with no depression.

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                                                                LOSING YOUR MONEY

Making money is all about your being and your doing: being who you are and doing what you can with what you have.

Not knowing your true self and not doing what you are supposed to do, and yet wanting your money, and even lots of it, leads to your “money fantasies”, such as becoming a professional gambler, lining up for hours to get your Power Ball, and even engaging in burglary or bank robbery.

No matter what, you may lose your money at some point in your life, and that is a reality. Remember, the opposite of "gain" is "loss", and what goes up must also come down, and this is a universal truth.


Even if your life is a bed of roses, it must also have some thorns to go with it. What goes up must also come down. Gains are followed by losses. That is the natural cycle of all things.

While pursuing your careers, you might have encountered your discharge or unemployment, and while making your money in your businesses or financial investments, you might also have been overwhelmed by your money losses.


Free yourself from “money miseries”—living from paycheck to paycheck; not making both ends meet; always seeing your lack and deprivation when compared with others.

Remember this: Even wealthy celebrities went broke, and you are not alone. For example, Mike Tyson, a boxing champion, earning over $300 million dollars, ended up in bankruptcy in 2003; and Michael Jackson, a recording artist, dancer, singer, and songwriter, earning over $500 million dollars, was heavily in debt when he died in 2009.

So, fight the good fight to recover, restore, and rejuvenate yourself from the bondage and wreckage of losses.


Money is emotional, especially when always feeling the lack of it. Yes, money can cause many mental problems, including depression.

With more money, you can live rich. But even with less money, you can still live richly, and free yourself from the bondage of lack.

But how to live richly if you have less money? The answer is thrift, which is an alternative lifestyle to consumerism, materialism, and over-consumption in this material world you are living in.

Thrift may help you work less, and not more. Many people are not paying with their money; instead, they are paying with their time from their lives. Are you one of them? Are you doing two or more jobs just to earn that extra money to spend more?

Thrift may promote your positive consumption values. Are some or most of your purchases aimed at your instant gratification, or just enhancing your self-esteem, making you feel rich, such as wearing a designer’s dress?

Thrift may encourage your savings. It may give you more space to save, thereby instrumental in protecting you from negative income shocks, such as an unexpected unemployment.

Yes, living richly with thrift may turn you from bondage to freedom.

FREEDOM with BONDAGE shows you how to free yourself from your bondage to the flesh that gives you the "freedom" to make the wrong choices and decisions in your everyday life.

Stephen Lau
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